The worse thing that could Happen

1. Getting Hurt

When we fall in love we get hurt, it will heal but there will always be a scar. There will always be a mark there to stay and to remind you how much you loved that person and to remind you how much pain you've gone through with him/her.

Physical pain has it's valid, positive point. It is a continual feedback to tell us what to do and what not to do. It limit us from doing things and reminds us what we should not try. Once we get hurt, a part of us will always know how much it hurt, how much pain we felt that would alarm our system and let us know.

If we are going through an emotional pain, it is a message that we need to change our approach or see things differently. If we feel hurt or dumped by someone, the message would be, "Love those in your life without expectations. Accept them as they are and take what they want to give without judgement." Alternatively, it means, "Do not let the actions of others destroy your self-esteem". Pain causes us to change direction. It prompts us to see things differently. If we keep doing something stupid, we keep getting hurt.

2. Ended up waiting for nothing

We should all know that waiting is really a stupid thing to do in the world. Have you ever noticed that when you are sitting down waiting for a taxi and it never seemed to arrive? The longer you wait the longer it takes time to come - "A watched pot will never boil."

As a general example, a person waiting for a phone call from a friend and it seemed to be that person is having some trouble contacting you. After waiting for what seemed like hours, you decided to do something else and then by that minute the phone call will come through.

So if you will sit and wait, stand up and do something else. Because it will take a long time to arrive, sometimes it never comes. So get busy with something else for a while. Get on and live your life, don't really have to bother about what you're waiting for. Cause if you learn how to let go of the situation, it will accelerate the results.

So stop waiting if you don't want it to turn into nothing.